"Look for a better approach"

Was cold pinged in telegram and demanded an ethos review, asked to have their socials to do some digging, was dodge and todl their "friend" referred them to me. After asking many times, finally shared an X with 0 mutuals, zero. If you want to have people help you in life and the space, maybe reach out and introduce yourself, ask them how their day is, don't just demand they do something for you (something that takes their time, reputational risk etc) it's just... rude.